Comments on: Top 5 Signs That Tell You She’s Not Interested

By: nick

nick — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 00:58:09 +0000

ok so i can relate to this topic. i have a question. i like this one girl who talked to me for a while in school. but when i mesg her on myspace she almost never responds. is this a sign of her rejecting me? View all comments by nick

By: man

man — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 00:24:10 +0000

omfg how about just telling us i mean its not that hard u think were dumb cuz we cant read your mind wtf!>=( if your so smart just tell them no u dont want to date and fucking stop trying to give them hints View all comments by man

By: anonymous

anonymous — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 21:30:58 +0000

why be so upset when one window is closed while other windows are opening? girls, if you really dislike any of your suitors, just tell it to him…dun have to give reasons like “i got my personal reasons”. i mean WTF are ur personal reasons? just make it plain clear to him. giving hints arent that convincing. dont u think? everyone can make friends. anyway…just start a new game and be smart next time when you had a new player(s) to play all your plans with.

SMART UP!! View all comments by anonymous

By: clark griswald

clark griswald — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 21:22:54 +0000

Update!, the 21 year old at my gym never called me but we still talk at the gym, i dont really care and as far as the other girl, well she went awal again so i left her a message telling her off, ya she deserved it, i had enough. Iv come to the conclusion that women today just aint shit any more, bad parenting and no morals breeds nutty women. If there are any decent women out there, well i cant find them. Listen up guys and listen good, if you have doubts about a girl, let her go, forget it, no women is worth any heartache, there all fucked up big time. If your just lookin for sex, use a hooker, if your lookin for love, psh, it doesnt exist anymore, to bad for us real men, not players, MEN ! Women now days cant be trusted, there worse than guys in all aspects, thanks to baby boomer parents the US atlest is full of jerry springer sluts :) On a more positive note, I have a “friend” in my building, shes turning 19 soon, lol. Well hay, shes worth a shot, she hasnt been corrupted mentally by fucked up american parents , shes from Sebia so she might be worth some effort. They seem to be getting younger around me, lol. View all comments by clark griswald

By: clark griswald

clark griswald — Mon, 24 Sep 2007 00:50:23 +0000

Star Searcher is 100% correct, no matter how you analize and debate every little detail, if she likes you she will find the time, period!! This is also a small update, the new girl at the gym, well i introduced myself to her and talked with her for awhile, i just feel so old compared to her, shes in college and only 21, lol. I dont know if shes interested but only time will tell, I want to ask her out but i feel so stupid cause of the age difference. I dont know what im going to do as of now but I well talk with her next time i see her. I was happy to see that when she came in the gym after the first time we introduced ourselves that the first thing she did when she walked in was smile and waved at me, so who knows ? View all comments by clark griswald

By: Star Searcher

Star Searcher — Sun, 23 Sep 2007 00:46:23 +0000

Yeah I agree with the hard to get thing,If she shows all those signs then she is playing hard to never get,If she’s playing hard to get,she’ll at least call you back every couple of times you call her and she’ll also still want to be around you every once in awhile,If she consistently keeps saying no to your invites and says “I’m really busy or crazy busy”,then there isn’t enough chemistry to make time to see you,I knew one woman that worked 12 hours a day,seven days a week that had 2 kids and elderly parents and animals to take care of and she still saw her man almost every night,If she says really busy,she’s telling you a crock of shit,So once not interested always not interested,whenever she decides that she is not interested it’s pretty much a done deal. View all comments by Star Searcher

By: Teddy Ruxpin

Teddy Ruxpin — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 02:48:31 +0000

here’s an update on my deal,

A lil over a month has passed & nothing, but then again I’ve been on vacation & had 2 wknd getaways since I 1st posted here.

Earlier this week was my bornday & I got calls from my ex’s, ladies Ive met in bars/clubs/gyms/etc wishing me a happy bornday but I got no calls/emails/texts nothing from her. I guess its pretty much safe to say I should move along, right?

I really want to get to know this young lady much better, but the 1st 4 years of her line of work (business) is a “dog eat dog world” & she’s already gone thru her 1st year too. Also I don’t want to end up like Jonathan’s friend either.

btw, my clients, where I met her, I pretty much don’t do business with them no more & I know she still has close ties to her former bosses, but I’ll be going there this week to pickup bday gift & they also have some “non work related” stuff to discus with me. I have no clue what this non work related stuff can be, but I have a feeling that the young lady in question is a topic that might be discussed.

Once again, like Griswold :I’m in that “well I don’t know’ stage too, lol.

btw, I met this other young lady last night at a local comedy club, & since then I cant get the young lady outta my mind, kinda nuts huh, lol.

well, take care all & we will see what happens =-D

one last thing, someone I know (sleezebag kinda guy) told me to google her name & see what “pops-up” but it dont feel right.

Should I, or is that another No-Noo aswell?
to me it feals kinda “stalker-ish” dont ya think. View all comments by Teddy Ruxpin

By: clark griswald

clark griswald — Sun, 09 Sep 2007 22:37:49 +0000

New Update ! Well its been i dont even know , maybe 4 months since i last saw the gym girl i like. I found out through casual conversation that this girl starts dating guys and within a week to 2 she has then vertually moved in to her parents house, mail change of address and all. Someone pointed out to me that its possible she dedided not to puruse me or let me pursue her because im a man and not a boy, meaning im independent and i would never semi-move into anyones house but mine, let alone a women who lives with her parents. I also found out all her past boyfriends were big time losers. I think maybe she was attracted to me subconsciencely because im an alcoholic but when she discovered that I am in control and not drinking that maybe it was a turnoff somehow. What is really amazing to me is I decided to trust this girl at her word…about her cleaning up her act so to speak, no more partying and even though I knew deep inside that she was full of shit like most women, sorry ladies but thats my experience in my life so far..no offense I actually feel good that I let myself trust a woman again. Im trying not to sound like a woman hater, lol but all the women i have come in contact with in my life are always confused about everything and never know what they want in life or love, they say they do but when they get it, its not enough. Seems to me the biggest concern with women is money, they dont care how a guy is as long as he has coin and that you ladies cannot defend all you have to do is open your eyes to see , its all around you. The bald fat man with a corvette always has a hot young girl with him. I just wonder if there are any real women out there. I mean a woman who wants a man who works for a living and is caring and honest and stays in shape and is faithful, cause thats what i am and it never works out, nice guys always finish last. I also wanted to add that im not concerned with this girl anymore for dating, i still think of her as a friend but i came back here to add this cause i got an email from this website, lol so i figured why not update, oh and i found a new girl at the gym, this one is only 23 and im 36 so we shall see soon if she likes older guys. Oh ya before i forget, if any of you ladies out there want to tell me I am having no luck cause the girls im trying to date are to young..well that is true but there are no women my age that are single and if they are they are man haters with horrible attitudes and almost 99% of the time FAT, sorry but its true. Im a bodybuilder and in fantatic shape so im not gonna settle for that. View all comments by clark griswald

By: Zackary

Zackary — Sun, 09 Sep 2007 03:28:26 +0000

I agree with Jonathan,If she shows all those signs above she’s not playing hard to get,she’s playing hard never to get,I can’t see how that girl put up with the same guy pursuing her for fifteen years,He’s lucky he didn’t get locked up for stalking her.If the figures don’t add up on paper then they’re not going to in reality but some people keep trying anyway,They don’t take time out to see if it has potential,they think that if they think positive it will happen by magic.Some “guys”think they know better, better then the people that have been there and done that,better then the love doctors or professionals,very doubtful.pursuing a woman that’s showing all those signs above,with confidence and a positive attitude is like trying to start your car without gas,”I’ll keep trying to start it even though it has no gas in it,If I keep trying with a positive attitude and confidence it’ll start.”But in reality you’ll run down every battery and burn out every starter in the world before it starts.So if she’s showing all those signs,It has no potential,you’ll die before she goes out with you. View all comments by Zackary

By: Jonathan

Jonathan — Wed, 29 Aug 2007 01:21:26 +0000

Jackalack I don’t think so.either the feeling is there or it isn’t,when a woman decides it isn’t there it can never be even if you try with all your might,The way a woman feels is based on what she wants from a man and those feelings are associated with her conscience,and she can’t grow a conscience.So she can’t help not being interested anymore then she can help the color of her skin or how tall she grows,So if you keep pursuing a woman that feels like that about you she’ll only get annoyed with you.I had a friend that pursued a girl for fifteen years and she kept making it clear that she only wanted to be friends with him but he laughed it off and just thought she was “playing hard to get”,and he even ignored the signs above I kept telling him to “back off It can never be”,but he still persisted, he kept saying “she’ll eventually grow on me”,but I told him “if you both were on a deserted island for a thousand years she still wouldn’t grow on you”,but he still didn’t listen,It took her getting married twice and dating other guys for him to realize it wasn’t going to happen,So now he’s in his early fifties and still alone, very sad. View all comments by Jonathan

By: Jackalack

Jackalack — Wed, 29 Aug 2007 01:08:16 +0000

I think if she’s showing all those signs above she’s just playing hard to get,if you keep pursuing her and keep putting your mind to it she’ll eventually have feelings for you and want to give in. View all comments by Jackalack

By: Teddy Ruxpin

Teddy Ruxpin — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 00:45:53 +0000

sorry to revive this thread, but I’m also in a similar situation as Clark Griswold.

I met this young lady through work, she worked for one of my clients, but I really coulnt do much cause I didn’t want to jeopardize my job/clients & she felt the same. So we stop talking & she gets a different job elsewhere. 6mo. later we start talking again then go out for coffee & stuff like that. Finally we go out & both of us had a great time & she mentions that she hasn’t had “soo much fun” in a loong time. Everything was going great that evening well now past midnight that she busts out with that “Cinderella” line. Since then we really haven’t called each other & maybe email/text like once a week or so. Also she does the opposites of #’s 4 & 5.

I’ve been out with many girls but the majority of these girls I go out with are cool but like the have no ambition, future & cant picture themselves in 5/10 years from now, & this young lady is the complete opposite tho.

btw, getting tips from her former co-workers that she still talks to on a daily-weekly basis. Good thing or a NoNoo.

tnx in advance=-p View all comments by Teddy Ruxpin

By: omar

omar — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 03:48:20 +0000

let me defend the guys we are similar to you girls nervous and just dont know what to do when we see a fine or cute girl/boy some are braver than others but most importantly when you girls give us signs we either dont see them or we are to shy or nervous to see them and what we tend to do is imagine our future with a cute girl rather than trying to find out if you like us or not what make our minds wonder if we like you or not is because you girls dont tell us and the ones that do we deny it because we cant get past what has happen in the past were we thought you liked us and we are sure that you like us because of what happen in the past View all comments by omar

By: clark griswald

clark griswald — Wed, 23 May 2007 23:57:02 +0000

To Someone, I feel your pain belive me, lol. It sounds to me like your in the dreaded friend zone. Honestly iv never been in the friend zone before so i dont know how to get out of it.
Just for the record I wanted to say that it seems like us nice guys always get screwed somehow ya know. I swear when i was in college I got so much play from the girlies at the bars it was amazing even to me and how I did it was I treated them like they werent important and I could take them or leave them, basically i treated them pretty bad, i used to tell them im just in it for sex nothing else and then the b.s. would ensue, lol. Now im ten years older but im in better shape and look way better but i lack the confidence i had when i was a drunk asshole, lol but since then iv grown up and stopped drinking so now im alone, lol. View all comments by clark griswald

By: jupilier

jupilier — Wed, 23 May 2007 04:28:21 +0000

Confucious said, “The man who gives up everything gets everything! ” :) View all comments by jupilier

By: clark griswald

clark griswald — Wed, 23 May 2007 04:23:58 +0000

Just an update. Well we didnt talk for 2 weeks so i called her and left her a message, didnt ask her to return my call. Then i called her a week later and said im gonna be at your door at 7pm on sat. to take you to dinner and im not taking no for an aswer…this was said jokingly about not taking no for an answer. Well sat. she called me at noon and after the normal chatting she said she cant its girls night out. The only info i have is she has spent tiime with a few friends so, I guess im not important to her anymore so i fugured after that call that im gonna make it worse if i dont leave for good so that moment i deleted her number outta my cell, so no matter what i cant call her. Its up to her cause i cant seem to win so i say fuck it, lol. View all comments by clark griswald

By: Tantowi

Tantowi — Mon, 14 May 2007 00:11:42 +0000

For men,those 5 signs is the signs for try plan B and don’t give up.
BTW here’s “What Women Don�t Know About Men”:
Men Are Less Romantic Than Women.
Men Cope With Breakups More Easily Than Women Do.
Men Never Feel Lonely.
Men Don�t Agonize Over Their Looks.
Men Are Insensitive View all comments by Tantowi

By: justanotherguy

justanotherguy — Sun, 13 May 2007 14:28:21 +0000

take it from an average guy.. when a guy asks a girl out on a date, and she rejects (for whatever reason), we generally take it as “try harder or another day”
number 1 is good enough.. you don’t have to give a reason, be straightforward and leave quickly. do yourself a favour if it gets annoying. and no, its not cruel..
we’d appreciate the straightforwardness.. its better than us trying to read the signs and hint.. i hate to say it but, yes we’re boneheads when it comes to that. and if you tell it to his face and he still doesn’t buzz off… well get some help.. you might have a stalker =s View all comments by justanotherguy

By: someone

someone — Fri, 11 May 2007 21:24:26 +0000

theirs this girl ive known for a couple years and she does the opposite of everything on your list. doesn’t look away or ignore my gaze.she does answer my calls and messages and sometimes calls me. i walk her to most of her classe and everything. she does alot of the talking and has fun with me. But she wont go out with me? explain that View all comments by someone

By: clark griswald

clark griswald — Thu, 26 Apr 2007 19:51:19 +0000

Well, I met a girl at my gym and we started chatting a lot at the gym and on the phone. We went out to dinner and things seemed great, then she stopped returning my calls and broke plans we had. I found out from her after a couple messages left from me and 3 days later when she did call me back that her x has started calling her again cause he wants her back ( hes a alcoholic mess).During this mess she had decided to leave the gym for another gym, She says she needs a life change but i know theres a guy she had a fling with in there now, he just joined. Well she says she doesnt care about anyone there or what they say. This girl used to party all the time like me but she has stopped that life style for atleast for sure the last 5 months, bye the way im 6 years sober, i was a drunk, lol. She tells me shes not going back with him x but the guys mom calls her and stuff and he keeps coming around to get all his stuf from her house, ( she still lives at home). I confronted her 2 days ago, i went to her house. Long story short, to late, lol. I asked a million questions and heres what i got. she hasnt been talking to anybody including best friends, shes says shes not going back with him . She told me she DOESNT ! want me to ” leave her alone or stop calling her” Just so you guys know i dont call everyday or stalker stuff, just normal calling maybe 2 times a week , in fact she was calling me more when this started! She says shes gotta figure it out for herself even though i offered help. Now she knows I like her cause When this first started I thought we were starting to date, she says she thought it was just a friend thing but she knows for sure i want to date her, she says shes not dating anybody its not me, ok fine i think maybe she needs time to get her head strait, i understand that but im wondering if shes interested or not for future dating ? hopfully not to long. If she is not attracted to me at all then wouldnt she tell me now, i mean she knows i want her? We have a lot in common, a lot but i dont know if she sees what i see. I just keep focusing on the fact she told me she DOESNT want me to stop calling etc. As of the other day i told her “well im gonna leave you alone for a while so you can mabye get things strait in your head, i really like this one and im willing to be patient, i figure id wait a week and a half til i call her, if she doesnt call me in the mean time. I dont know what to do, i dont wanna wait for her to get her stuff together more than a month cause she been broken up with the x loser since february of 07. By the way, she has been on and off with this screw since high school. Please anyone, especially the women, please let me hear your thoughts, let her rip ladies !! Just so everyone out there knows, when i was face to face talking to her i asked her and told her over and over, if you want me to leave you alone and stay away i will, it wont hurt my feeling, over and over i gave her a chance to get rid of me, very nicely and adult like to …..so????? HELP !! View all comments by clark griswald