Top 5 Signs That Tell You She’s Not Interested
Make that “100 percent not interested”. She feels nothing for you. None. Zero. Zilch. She never did, and she never will. These are five foolproof ways that a girl may be using to tell you to back off and leave her alone.
5. She avoids your gaze and hardly makes eye contact. She’s happier looking down and around, at her food, at the surroundings, in fact anywhere else but you.
4. She does not appear to be interested in the things you say. She lets you do all the talking. Her replies are simply “yes”, “no”, or more frequently, “uh-huh”.
3. She ignores your calls and messages.
2. She makes sure you are aware that she is seeing other guys.
And the number one sign…
She tells you straight to your face that she’s not interested in you, and backs it up with facts and reasons, letting you know exactly where you fall short (because you asked).
Jesus! What more can a girl do?
Okay I’m aware that I’m probably sounding a little bitchy right now. But frankly, the only thing that’s more annoying than a guy that wouldn’t stop going after a girl who’s clearly not interested, is a guy who wrongly assumes that she is.
Read the signs. Quit finding other reasons for her behaviour. Please.
Jan 11, 2007
haha… annoying guy hitting on you?
Well… time to hit back… the water splashing treatment would get top response… and fast too!!! especially when it happens all the time… hehe
of course… if he’s that much of a bonehead… he still may not get the idea… then it time to bring out the male ego.. let some OTHER guy handle him!
Once the rough action starts.. the message would get across… eventually… hehe
^)>
Jan 12, 2007
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I know persistence is a waste of time if the gal has not even slight interest in the guy at all.
But from a guy’s point of view, you never know until you try.
Jan 12, 2007
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but there again, to some, it is the chase that is the best part! :)
Jan 12, 2007
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i wonder if thats how stalkers justify what they do? :)
Jan 12, 2007
what if the girl really liked the guy before and now when the guy chases her she shows these 5 signs?
Jan 12, 2007
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haha.. very interesting post.
Seems like alot of guys miss the point when pursuing a girl. Now, before i start, i’m no casanova or Fabio or pick-up artist..
It’s human nature that people like a challenge. Things which are too easy to get aren’t worth the effot. If the guy is acting all lovey-dovey, wussy or just plain smoothering the girl with affection, she’ll run off in the other direction. The law of Attracion says that we eventually receive what we think most about. Attraction is not logical, its an emotional response. Just like people go on spending sprees, they spend on impulse (emotion) but justify it with logic (which always loses out to emotion).
Anyway, the tip to all guys is to create the attraction in the first place.. abit of subtle mystery…
-If she’s curious to find out more, she’s thinking.. when she’s thinking, it increases the attraction.
Remember: ” We attract the things which we think most about”
Jan 12, 2007
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Well said Edmund. The Law of Attraction is powerful. One of my postings:
http://jupilier.blogspot.com/2006/12/secret-behind-secret.html
talks about applying the Law of attraction. That is, the secret behind the secret. ;)
Jan 12, 2007
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“We attract the things which we think most about”
Shouldn’t it be “We are attracted to the things we think most about”?
Anyway about pursuing a girl, when the girl tells the guy to stop doing it, he should just listen. Otherwise it’s bordering on harassment.
Jan 12, 2007
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Veron
The guy will then think of ‘it’ more, ie. the girl he is supposed to stop bothering. Hence making him more determined. Haven’t we heard that forbidden fruit is sweet? ;)
Jan 12, 2007
3472
Now, that’s just selfish don’t you think?
Jan 12, 2007
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Hi Veron
yep, it works both ways.. “We are attracted to the things we think most about” and also “We attract the things which we think most about”.
The latter is gleaned from the movie “The Secret”
(thanks Jupilier for the link, it was profound & certainly gave me much more clarity)
It goes along the lines of ’cause and effect’ and how the universe responds to those who “ask” and you shall be given a “reply”..
Ed :)
Jan 12, 2007
Hey, have you seen this website before? The layout looks a lot like yours.
http://www.justjasmine.net/
Jan 13, 2007
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veron
you think about these persistent boys so much that you even write a post about them. hmmm, i think you are attracting them to come back for more… ;)
Jan 13, 2007
3472
Okay, this entry was written out of pure annoyance and frustration due to annoying creeps and stalkers that are haunting me nonstop. In all fairness it is pretty hard not to think about them when they keep positioning themselves somewhere near you, or bombarding you with calls and messages. “We are attracted to the things we think most about” therefore does not apply here. I do not willingly think about them. Rather, they force themselves into my line of sight, the way stalkers do.
I can’t stress this enough. But I can’t believe anyone would still wanna argue after point #1:
“she tells you straight to your face that she’s not interested in you, and backs it up with facts and reasons, letting you know exactly where you fall short (because you asked).”
Would I ever be attracted to a stalker? No.
Would you ever be? I hope not.
Case closed.
Jan 13, 2007
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Veron
I think you may have missed the point of what I was trying to say. Try watching THE SECRET. There are snippets on Youtube.
It short, it says that we will get what we think of. So, even you are not attracted to them stalkers, the fact that you detest them meant that you are thinking of them a wee bit too much.
Hence ‘attracting’ them to pursue you.
Conversely, if u dont think abt them, they will fade away. dont give them the power of ur thoughts.
Jan 13, 2007
Lol! Nice one.. Are they really frank about Sign 1 ?
Manas
Jan 14, 2007
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Hey jupilier,
I ain’t gonna waste time watching any Youtube clip when I’m pretty clear about my point already. The last thing I need is for someone else whom I have never met before tell me what he thinks I am thinking/feeling. I think the one person in the world who would be clearest about that would be yours truly, thank you very much.
I tend to think that you’ve missed my point, as well as the point of this blog entry completely. If you know what stalkers are like, you probably wouldn’t be making senseless remarks like the ones you did. It’s a mental torture to have stalkers, you know? Say you have loan sharks hounding you, I bet you would be thinking of them “a wee bit too much” as well. Would you bear any attraction towards them? Maybe, if you are really, really, really sad and lonely.
I have filed police reports against such people before (stalkers, not loan sharks). That’s the extent of how much these sick people bother me. You obviously have no idea.
For now I would like to hear comments from other people, please.
Jan 14, 2007
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G’day Veron
it’s unfortunate that we live in the information age today and people can find out almost anything about anyone online. Most times, that power is used to great effect (eradicating poverty, petitions, creation awareness and actions), but conversely you have experienced the negative side of it as well.
In the small rock that is Singapore, we have hardly any world-wide claim to fame (banning chewing-gum and hanging/caning foreigners doesn’t count). I guess blogging and being a demi-celebrity attracts all facets of society. The price of fame?
Jan 17, 2007
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well how do i know..let’s just say i’ve met alot of different type of people. their traits and behaviour are quite similar. (depending the thickness of their skin)
if that guy’s condition is chronic one then u better take care of urself..
Jan 19, 2007
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I think I can empathize with you. I got “stalked” before as well. Worse still, by a guy. @@